How Do I Motivate Myself and Keep The Momentum?

“How Do I Motivate Myself and Keep The Momentum?”

A friend of mine recently asked me this question. Although a fair one, I have avoided answering this with many people in a truthful way, because I have been skeptical of the way it will get perceived.  

But maybe my honesty might help someone out there to look at things differently. So here it is in exact words what I told my friend –

I don’t see motivation as an external thing but more from within. My go-to thoughts are the hard times I have been through in my life and thinking that my back is against the wall. I keep my aim to be present for my family with full energy and presence of mind. I think of training as something to help me channel all my energy into becoming a better version of who I was yesterday and more so to be in control of my own internal environment in order to survive in the external environment.

I truly believe that the way I show up in one area of life, I will do the same in every other area of life. So if my health is not in check them my family, career, finances, purpose, passion, and relationships will also go out of alignment. Training to me more like an anchor to get up and take control of life instead of others taking control of it.

To extend it further, it makes me a leader of my own life as I take charge from the get-go. I want to be prepared mentally, emotionally and physically before I step myself into the daily grind of working life where the battles of dealing with human emotions are constant.

Well, I hope this makes sense and helps some of you to start thinking about your life and health differently.

Rahul Talreja
BYBS Transformation

Pre-Workout Preparation – 5 Things to Do Before Your Workout

It’s Sunday evening as I write this blog, my mind has started to prepare for a new week that I step into tomorrow. Unlike a lot of you who love to recite the lyrics “I hate Mondays”, I actually treat it differently. I look forward to it as a new day like any other day without branding it and treat it like a blessing and thought process of “I get to train” instead of “I have to train”.

Not only do I start prepping my mind visually, emotionally and mentally from creating an awesome productive week full of wins and learnings, I do a similar kind of prep work for my workouts/trainings on a daily basis.
Working out in or outside the gym is fun. It looks, feels and seems very cool and it is for sure if you love that too. But it is equally important, in fact, more than the actual training is the pre-workout preparation.

I am a big advocate of having my body, mind and spirit in check before I even step myself into the weight room. So I have narrowed down some important steps and checks that I would like to share with all you my friends, family and people who will be my friends in near future about preparing yourself before your training session.

Here are 5 things to do before workout as a pre-workout preparation:

1) Pre-Workout Meal – I do want to start by pointing out the importance of feeding yourself before your training. Those of you who believe that training empty stomach is going to help you lose those extra kilos or get rid of the flab are on a way of harming yourselves. It is possible to under the principles of intermittent fasting but that is a whole different topic in itself that we will cover separately.

For now, understand that you need a good decent nutritious meal in you at least 45-60 minutes before your training session. Now, you do not have to eat too heavy or get too full but it should be enough to fuel your training session. The meal should contain easy a good balance of protein, carbohydrates and fats, such as-

– Quinoa with grilled fish
– Low fat cottage cheese/paneer with some basmati rice
– Meal Replacement Protein shake
– Egg whites with some oats / quinoa

All of these very light on the stomach to digest fast, good sources to fuel your workout and will keep your energy levels intact. Anything heavy such as chicken or red meat is best to keep it for after workout as post workout meals or later part of the day when your body is screaming for nutrition

2) Proper Hydration – I keep emphasising the importance of hydration. Make sure you are well hydrated before your workout because you do not want to get into a state of light head zombie. Lack of water in your body can put a lot of stress on your digestive system and overall nervous system.
Secondly, when you are not hydrated enough you are calling out for cramps in your body due to holding up of lactic acid in the body. You want to stay in good hydrated state before your workout to make the best out of the session.

Remember you are going in the gym to break down those muscle tissues to grow
and change your body into a better shape. So better be prepared for the battle field.

3) Pack Your Essentials – having things in place before you enter the training room determines whether you are going to come out as a winner or a loser from that battlefield. So some of the essentials are-

– Training plan to know exactly what you are doing
– Log book – a book to log your progress as you go through the workout
– Water/ Intra workout shake
– Post workout shake
– Towels for proper hygiene

You can add things like your spare tops, shoes, headphones etc. in your pack if you want to be extra prepared. Remember – if you fail to prepare then be prepared to fail.

4) Visualise Your Workout – this is something a lot of athletes worldwide apply into their training as well as stepping into competition stage or platform or field. A night or day before start visualising yourself in the training room. Think about what you are wearing, the music you are listening to, the weight in your hand how it feels, the temperature of the room you are in, the people around, smell etc. Think about every rep or a set you are doing.

Preparing your mind ahead of the game is actually going to help you because once you are psychologically connected then you are going through the motions in the training room or ground. Become a visionary

5)  Pump up Music- music is that one universal language that connects straight with our soul. A music that pumps you up in a good way is what you should listen while on your way to the training session. Research has shown that if you listen to the music of the era around your childhood, it brings out some good memories and makes you happy with a smile on your face. That is the best physical and mental state to be in when you are training because it boosts your energy levels to a peak state.

When you are well prepared in your mind for what is to come, that’s when you go in to give your best. Pre-workout preparation isn’t just limited to good clothing, music, shoes, and wrist bands and so on. It is primarily about getting into the right mental, emotional and then physical state.

Training is all about having a good environment internally for external results. What we give is what we receive.

All the best for your next training session

Rahul Talreja
Transformation Coach
Be Your Best Self Transformation

Tips to Reduce Fat around Your Waist

One of the most common area of the body that people struggle (myself included) is our torso/waist/stomach because that is where we store the most fat in our body. Of course, there is a snowball effect of that going into other areas, such as our thighs and butts, however, the first place we all look in the mirror every single time we get a chance is our waist.

Although, we all seek that 1 magic pill or something similar that can help us get rid of that flab so we can fit into our old jeans, shirt or a dress, there are some simple tricks & tips you can apply staring right now to start reducing fat around your waist.

Tip#1: Morning Brew

Start your morning with this particular brew to go first thing in your body instead of a coffee or juice.

Green tea + 1 table spoon Apple Cider Vinegar + 1 table spoon Lemon Juice

As much ruthless this is going to taste in your mouth (you might throw up), this brew is an absolute magic because your cleansing out stored toxins in your body. It also removes any bad bacteria in your body and replaces it with good bacteria that helps your digest food you eat through the day.
Consume it every morning for 4 weeks straight without fail, the results will be just magical.

Tip#2: Daily 20 Minutes Low Intensity Cardio

Now that you have started your day right with the morning brew in your belly, it’s time to put on some training shoes and music to go out for 20 minutes brisk walk. The reason I suggest low intensity cardio is because it is certainly effective but also it doesn’t feel like a chore to beginners or people who dread away from training thinking it’s hard. The intensity is enough that you can talk to the person walking next to you yet with a heart rate that is faster than normal.

You don’t need to run a mile like a marathon runner to get fit. Just can simply choose 20 minutes out of your day be it morning, noon or evening to perform this form of cardio. You can use treadmill, stationary bike, and outdoor walks, cross trainer or Stairmaster as long as you are doing it. I personally do 2 sessions of 20 minutes – one in morning after my weight training and one in the evening with my wife which is an outdoor walk.

Combine this with Tip 1 for next 4 weeks to gain momentum to your flab reduction and fat burning process

Tip# 3: Remove Complex Carbs after 6 PM

This is one tip that I has made me the most hated guy amongst my family & friends, yet has given amazing results to anyone who has followed it in pretty much days. I personally have been following this rule for last few years of no complex carbs in the evening leading to bed time. Yes I do talk about meal plan/prep and having 3 hours meal frequency and this tip has always formed part of that strategy.

When I use the term “complex carbs” I refer to rice, potato, sweet potato, pasta, bread, noodles, pizza etc. doesn’t matter if they are gluten free or made out of thin air. Instead I’d like you to replace it with fibrous carbs such as your green leafy salad or steamed veggies. They are high in water content making it easy to digest overnight as compared to your breads or rice that will sit in your gut for hours even while you are sleeping.

Oh yep I forgot to add to this – no desserts either in the evening. Ideally you won’t need them if you stay consistent with your meal prep (check out my previous blog for more information).

To conclude, the above tips are simple, easy to follow and monitor by anyone. Probably you might have already started preparing for this change starting tomorrow morning. You can incorporate all the tips in your lifestyle or start with 1 at a time. Make sure you follow it through for 4 weeks straight without fail, because that is how much time it will take to form a new habit and once it’s a habit it is part of your lifestyle.

Well, wish you all the best. If you have any questions, feel free to contact me through the form.

Rahul Talreja
Transformation Coach
Be Your Best Self Transformation

EGO VS PURPOSE – WHAT DO YOU TRAIN WITH?

I have been to many gyms in my fitness lifetime and have met many men as well as women who come in with a purpose to train with full intensity by giving their blood n sweat. They come in with a laser focus of putting their bodies through hell, heat and pain; break those muscle tissues and go out of that door as a reborn.

However, more than the above mentioned lot, my encounters are mostly with people lifting weights purely because their ego is bigger than the weight they are attempting to lift. The unnecessary grunts, bad movements, long holding of machines and throwing away of the weights does gives a lot of attention to the people around them, but is it working for anyone – not really sure.

Now this is more common in men than women because we (males) carry a huge ego in our back pockets to wanting to prove our manliness, show off our testosterones.

I have nothing against anyone who is training, everyone has their own way of doing things. Each to their own, however, I do want to highlight you the difference between ego and purpose when it comes to weight training so it can help you recognize your mental state, training style/ principles and more importantly, stay in the game for long term without hurting yourself.

Firstly, when you are lifting weights always be cautious of your postures. When you are lifting too heavy but compromising your posture chances are your ego has kicked in pushing you to take a huge risk of getting injured. As soon as you notice that, reduce your weight to 70 to 8o percent so the physical posture doesn’t get compromised. Fitness is a lifelong game to be part off, taking short term gains won’t help if you are injured in the long run.

Ego va Purpose

Secondly, save yourself some embarrassment with your unnecessary grunts just because your ego has taken over your mindset so the weight in your hand is heavier than the grocery bag you have ever lifted. Trust me, no one likes that person who sounds like a gorilla has walked in disturbing their mental focus. Training with purpose is all about getting in the weight room, do the work quietly with least noise possible, be respectful of others and get out of the place.

Third, a purposeful training isn’t about wasting time watching TV or holding up the equipment’s while you are planning your weekend or discussing politics etc. in the middle of the training while others are waiting for your rants to finish. A person who trains with a purpose has a plan that he or she is following with a laser focussed action and no bullshit attitude.

Last but not the least is ego driven training distracts a person away from their own vision or results because the mindset moves from “what am I training for” to “how much can I lift”. Again, not a bad thing to check how much you can lift if the purpose is to compete in powerlifting or strongman competition. But if your purpose is overall fitness and health improvement than stay on track with your results in mind.

One must have intention to become healthy with a purpose they can relate to every time they walk into a gym or even start on a physical activity to improve fitness. Having a purpose gives you right push to go out to create results. However, if you are just working hard without a goal or a purpose then chances of hurting yourself emotionally, mentally and physically are higher because your drive isn’t that strong when it comes to becoming a healthier version of yourself.

Rahul Talreja
Coach
Be Your Best Self Transformation