How Do I Motivate Myself and Keep The Momentum?

“How Do I Motivate Myself and Keep The Momentum?”

A friend of mine recently asked me this question. Although a fair one, I have avoided answering this with many people in a truthful way, because I have been skeptical of the way it will get perceived.  

But maybe my honesty might help someone out there to look at things differently. So here it is in exact words what I told my friend –

I don’t see motivation as an external thing but more from within. My go-to thoughts are the hard times I have been through in my life and thinking that my back is against the wall. I keep my aim to be present for my family with full energy and presence of mind. I think of training as something to help me channel all my energy into becoming a better version of who I was yesterday and more so to be in control of my own internal environment in order to survive in the external environment.

I truly believe that the way I show up in one area of life, I will do the same in every other area of life. So if my health is not in check them my family, career, finances, purpose, passion, and relationships will also go out of alignment. Training to me more like an anchor to get up and take control of life instead of others taking control of it.

To extend it further, it makes me a leader of my own life as I take charge from the get-go. I want to be prepared mentally, emotionally and physically before I step myself into the daily grind of working life where the battles of dealing with human emotions are constant.

Well, I hope this makes sense and helps some of you to start thinking about your life and health differently.

Rahul Talreja
BYBS Transformation

Fitness and Corporate Life – A Tug of War

Corporate or professional life, as we call it, is demanding for sure and bringing anything else but fitness into that lifestyle does become harder, especially when we are working long hours and then we have social, family and personal commitments outside of the four walls of the corporate culture.

Most individuals stop focussing on their own health as the priority changes in life and as we are growing from being single to a life of committed relationships with our partners, kids and the triumph of enlarging circle our focus change from self to that of everyone else first. Subconsciously we start treating ourselves less than everybody else, slowly to realize that we have become our own victims.

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Truth about Cheat Meals – Are They Good?

When I started bodybuilding in November 2013, I came across this term rather concept of “Cheat Meal”. Prior to that even though I have been a fitness enthusiast for several years, I wasn’t aware of this whole concept. However, my learnings were through professional bodybuilders and people who have been in the industry for a long time, therefore, my introduction to the whole concept was backed up with proper knowledge and scientific / biological reasoning.

Cheat meal is simply a meal where you indulge yourself in the high calorie food (basically junk food) one day of the week. This is very famous concept or term used within bodybuilding world because it is a sport where athletes have to eat multiple meals a day (every 2-3 hours) with specific ingredients, therefore, boosting cravings for junk food.

Over last 3 years, I moved away from cheat meals because as and when I started getting more understanding of my body, its functionality & response to certain foods etc., I stopped advocating about such meals. There is surely no denying that my approach to nutrition has now become stricter and that’s what I expect the same from people who approach me for guidance in nutrition and training.

My reason is simple, our body needs to be fuelled with clean nutritionally rich food for its longevity and survival. If I am to be specific then below are some primary reasons for my strict approach to my nutrition day in and day out.

  1. Gut Feeling

With the whole week of clean eating, whenever I have had my cheat meal I face various abdominal issues almost immediately such as, cramps, bloating, and excess gas usually follows, which can quickly took away the joy I was looking for. All the sugar, bad fats, preservatives etc., upsets the good bacteria that lives in our gut causing inflammation and digestive issues.

  1. Dehydration

Another side effect of having junk food, especially ones high in sodium, can lead to dehydration because of the shock body has got through introduction of unhealthy food rich in sodium and fluid. The whole imbalance of nutrition generally leads people feeling puffy and dehydrated which is exactly how I felt. Don’t forget the headaches dehydration comes with and other snowball effects of it.

  1. High Risk of Disease

Consuming unhealthy fast through junk food may be a good feeling to your tongue and lips but certainly not a treat for your arteries. Over time, that fat storage in our veins and arteries can lead to heart diseases, increase in blood pressure and other horrible escalations such cancer.

Be Your Best Self Approach

The approach I follow and also put my clients through BYBS principles is simply clean eating using whole foods that cooked at home. Not saying stick to tasteless food but there is no room for junk food. Even I like to mix things up, that’s why I am constantly trying new recipes at home but the condition is choosing the right ingredients. If you check my YouTube vlog on Home Made Pancakes, you can notice all the ingredients are carefully selected.

If you are beginner to your transformation journey or even if you are fitness freak like me, do consider above points for your nutrition. You can also check my Vlog on the same topic to hear my views first hand here.

Rahul Talreja
Messenger of Fitness and Transformation
BE YOUR BEST SELF TRANSFORMATION
https://rahultalreja.net/

5 RULES TO BUILD LEAN MUSCLE

Building muscle at a basic level has been looked at from two fundamental points of view – lifting heavy weight and eat whatever the hell one can. But as much as it sounds fun, especially the eating part, it surely is taking our body towards direction we might regret due to additional fat storage and injuries.

The way I have been taught, therefore, have implemented in my training for last 3 years is through a slight better approach for a long term sustainable results instead of short term half-hearted results. So, here I would like to share the 5 rules of building lean muscle.

Rule 1 – Periodic Training

Your training should change every 2-3 weeks in terms of the principles you are applying. Say for example, for first 3 weeks focus on compound movements of 10-12 reps and following for week reduce the weights and increase the rep range to 12-15. By doing this you are giving your body a chance to adapt to a new form of training. You can then pick a different principle such as FST -7 or DTP or GVT to keep your body in the surprise.

Rule 2 – Variety of Movement

Keep adding knowledge of movements to your workout library by learning how different muscle groups work or function. It is best to choose alternate movements every few weeks to give a muscle new way of training. Example: if last 3 weeks you have done seated leg curls then switch to lying leg curls. The more variety you are going to add in your database, the more adaptable you will become to different training settings.

Rule 3 – Quality Pre and Post Workout Meals

One of the biggest factor is the nutrition in helping you build lean muscle. People often don’t pay enough attention to the quality of food they are feeding themselves before as well as after the workout. Ideally both those meals should contain a good proportion of carbs to protein and naturally occurring fats from the protein source. These meals must have higher proportion of carbs to protein ratio because your workout will assimilate those vital nutrients to absorb into the broken muscle fibres.

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Rule 4 – Keep Your Body Hydrated

An un-hydrated body is simply open to injuries, cramps, and other internal issues. Our body is 70% water, so to avoid it is half the battle lost. Water plays a vital role in maintaining a good blood flow that shuttles the nutrients for muscle repair, reduce the lactic acid stored in the body while training and better performance through energy levels.

Rule 5 – Dial down 4-6 Weeks

An important rule of growth is also recovery, therefore, after every 4-6 weeks of heavy training give your body a week to recover and repair. The best approach is to reduce the weight training down to 30-50% weight and do more cardio based training. Don’t completely give up on that week by not doing anything, in fact, use it for full recovery through massages, proper nutrition, hydration, chiro or physio adjustments etc.

It’s important to do hard work but if we can do it smartly then the results are incredible and for long term.

Enjoy growing

Rahul Talreja
Messenger of Fitness and Transformation
BE YOUR BEST SELF TRANSOFORMATION
www.rahultalreja.net

How to Make the Most Out of Your Weekends?

Weekend is what most people look forward to, specially, those who work in jobs and small businesses because that’s when an individual get time away from work to spend time with family and friends.

But more than that it is also a time when people look forward to procrastinate by – sleeping in/ waking up late; eat junk food; drink more alcohol than they would normally; party hard and do nothing productive.

This eventually leads to few things for us-

  • We feel like crap because we sabotaged our health buy feeding our body unhealthy nutrition less food / drinks.
  • We did not do anything productive
  • We spent more money than we wanted to so now we even feel more bad
  • We do not look forward to work because our mind has slipped into self-pity mode where the world is against us and life sucks

I will probably leave it to that as I can feel you getting the gist. If you are one of them then you better gear up to start making some changes my friend.

Before I tell you how you can change all of that, I have to confess that I for 3 years of my life I slipped into that this state myself and therefore, ended up in a pretty sad space mentally impacting every area of my life – especially my health and relationships.

So I changed my perspective towards my weekends as I knew I wanted to feel differently when I get back to work on Monday. There are things I applied and you should too if you want to have the best of weekends, get your health back in track, feel good about yourself and make the most of the time you have.

      1. Early Start – wake up same time as you would on a work day, assuming you work during the day. This will keep you on track with your time management and give you more of it on hand to utilise productively.
      2. 30 Minutes’ Workout – starting your day with a 30 minutes of workout, slow jog, walk, swim or any sport will out you in a zone of performance. This will lift your energy levels up – mentally and physically.
      3. Breakfast with Friends/Family – book ahead of the weekend your time with your friends or family members to have breakfast together early in the morning. With (1) and (2) already accomplished, this part of the day will push you to stay on track with your nutrition and also mentally relaxing to have the people you care about the most around you at the start of a day.
      4.  Projects – pick or create small projects for yourself to be done on the weekends. Something that involves creation; modification or betterment. Example – de-cluttering your house; painting your room; fixing your backyard; re-doing your interior of the house; fixing your car or bike etc.
      5.  Activity – book or pick an activity for yourself to do with your wife, kids, girlfriend, boyfriend or friends etc., so it takes you away from the daily grind and work stress. Doing such activities together reduces our cortisol’s level and also create some amazing memories.
      6.  Advance Preparation – remember school days when we had to be prepared with everything for the rest of the week to go smooth? Yes- it needs to come back. Make sure you doing everything ahead of the week – grocery shopping; meal preps; washing & ironing; cleaning etc. This way your work week will be very much focussed on work instead of stressing about everything else but work. Even use this time to look into your finances & bills to stay ahead of the game.
      7.  Recovery – give the weekends for recovery with massages or spa time, if you can, to release all the stress you have gained throughout the week.

     

     

The key objective is to return to basics of human body & life to make the most of the day. Now some of these points are also relevant during the week but in order to make the most of your weekends these steps/tips/tricks are definitely the way to go.

Rahul Talreja- Messenger of Fitness Transformation
Be Your Best Self

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Fitness Metamorphosis

We all have heard and/or seen stories about caterpillar who spins a cocoon to eventually emerge as a butterfly. This process of transformation is called Metamorphosis. Wikipedia defines metamorphosis as “the transformation of the larva into an adult through drastic changes”.

Similar is our fitness transformation journey. We start off with moving slowly and steadily forward as if we are crawling. Then through daily practice, discipline, consistent work and educating ourselves through books, coaches, mentors etc., we build our cocoon where we learn from doing and failing and then doing it again. Eventually we come out of that cocoon transformed into a beautiful butterfly with wings of great energy, confidence and self-belief.

To put it in simple words, metamorphosis is a marked changes in appearance, condition, character or function of a caterpillar. Most of you will agree that it is hard to believe that a tiny little bug will transform so beautifully.

In the world of fitness transformation, it stands the same for human beings. Our current physical state can be transformed if we are willing to move and start spinning.

In other words, instead of sitting and waiting for that perfect time, day, week, month or year to start of fitness journey we take action right now to go through the learning process by practicing and putting real work into it. The transformation is gradual because it takes time to build that cocoon of knowledge and experience through consistency as well as discipline. When you emerge out of it as a completely transformed being in all different intelligence levels – emotional, mental, physical and spiritual.

For me it has been a long journey because when I started my fitness transformation I was 15 years old with no real guidance. Then slowly I went from learning my making mistakes then coming across some amazing mentors & coaches in self-defence world followed by some amazing personal trainers, in the real and reel world, who were focussed on educating alongside training transformed me to a butterfly.

This is why I created Be Your Best Self Transformation to help people transform as an overall being. Fitness is not just limited to having a training plan and diet plan but more than that. It is a way of transforming into a new person each day because in real life that cocoon needs to be spanned more than once so we can keep emerging as a better version of ourselves.

 

 

Rahul Talreja- Messenger of Fitness Transformation
Be Your Best Self
www.rahultalrej.net

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Stay On Track This Christmas Holiday

December 25th – one of the most significantly celebrated day around the world with family and friends, its Christmas time baby. I quiet enjoy this colourful time of the year when everyone from kids to grandparents are in the joyous mood of celebrating, sharing and giving. The environment around just changes to the beautiful song.

However, there is definitely a correlation between the celebration and calories. There is certainly a huge amount of food intake involved during the celebration which is mostly calorie dense and processed.

So the question is how do we stay on track with our fitness during this holiday season? What steps can we take to avoid the impact on our body that lasts for months?

Christmas Fitness

I sit here writing this content to help be aware of your choices and also give you my own very personally experienced tips that I use for any social gathering for celebration.

  • Plate of Protein – focus on having more protein rich food that are lean sources and not covered in lot of oil. Protein is more expensive for body so it increases the metabolism 8% faster than carbohydrates and fats.
  • Hydration – as much as most people like to over-eat they end up consuming less fluid which can slow down metabolism. Staying hydrated with water or electrolyte rich fluids such as coconut water etc., not only improves metabolism but also reduces food cravings and keeps the energy levels up.
  • Calorie Cycling – with Christmas breakfast, lunch and dinner approaching, you can start consuming less calories in the form of carbohydrates and fats 2-3 days leading up to the main day. This way you are putting your body through a calorie deficit which in turn will help you consume the extra calories on the holiday.
  • Increase Your Cardio & Training – Leading up to the day you can increase your cardio sessions and also pump up a little harder in the gym. You are increasing your room for calorie deficit that can assist you consuming that delicious turkey.
  • Stop Grazing- A biggest mistake which fails people, over eating or gazing. Just because there is lot of food around doesn’t mean you have to snack on it. Watch what you are doing, stay accountable to yourself. Best is to make a list beforehand of food you want to eat on the day, that you won’t go bonkers on the food.

Holiday seasons are challenging with so much food around but it is also the time when we can lose focus. It’s about controlling our environment and the above tips or steps I take for myself has helped me a lot in staying in the shape. Now it’s your time to put that effort, you will thank yourself.

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Rahul Talreja
Messenger of Fitness Transformation

Be Your Best Self