We see people who are successful as someone who has been gifted with extra powers or just someone with more luck then we possess. The truth is that to be lucky one has to take chances in life. People who are successful don’t let excuses come their way, in fact, they look challenges as an opportunity to grow, expand and learn from.
Often when presented with opportunities, most people hide behind an invisible wall of restraints built in their own mind. When I say opportunity, I am not limiting myself to career or money-making. I am talking on a broader scale – could be a chance to travel, attend a session or even just join hands with someone you don’t know etc.
5 Common Excuses (+ How to Overcome Them)
But let’s first see what the common excuses that most people keep coming up with-
- Lack of Time – very common excuse for people to consider any new opportunity is the lack of time. People like to say they are busy or have a busy schedule without digging deeper into their daily activities. An example statement might be- “my days are very busy with work, dropping and picking kids of/ from the school; running house errands, looking after the dog and cooking meals for everyone”. But if look deep into the day by an hour, one can find few hours of income-producing activity.
- Lack of money to invest – another common excuse is no money to invest in a business or products or any great opportunity that gets offered to us. More than often people have money but they are saving up for a holiday or party instead of doing something constructive with it.
- Scepticism – Scepticism comes from lack of knowledge. As humans, we love to get into the conclusions straight away without even giving other people a chance to present the opportunity. The best way is to listen what a person has to say even if it’s a repetitive information and then make an educated decision.
- Stressful Work – no doubt the current working scenario is so hard that people are constantly under stress. There is more to do in limited hours on hand but that has also commonly identified as an excuse. It’s better to focus on a bigger picture than just merely doing things. People who are at the top also deal with stress at work, learn how to deal with it better.
- Unsupportive peers – people rely a lot on their friends and families opinion for any major step in life. It is good to consult but ideally, you are the decision maker. When you give power to others to make a decision, your own decision will not matter because the friends and family have already made one for you from day one.
People who make it at the top are there despite these challenges. If you look to read the journeys of highly successful people and industrialists, they have all been through hard times. The list above is only common challenges that people use as an excuse. My tip is start surrounding yourself with those kinds of people who are positive with the mindset of creating results with their action without waiting for things to happen on their own.
To achieve success in our goals we must focus on the goal instead of excuses to not go forward. Only the people who want bad enough make things happen. Either you let the external environment around you control your life or you control your external environment by being in control of your internal self.
Next time you are stopping yourself from an opportunity, ask yourself whether it is just an excuse or is it a genuine reason? Can you do something to change it or not?
More than often you will be surprised how fast you can change your own mind around