How Do I Motivate Myself and Keep The Momentum?

“How Do I Motivate Myself and Keep The Momentum?”

A friend of mine recently asked me this question. Although a fair one, I have avoided answering this with many people in a truthful way, because I have been skeptical of the way it will get perceived.  

But maybe my honesty might help someone out there to look at things differently. So here it is in exact words what I told my friend –

I don’t see motivation as an external thing but more from within. My go-to thoughts are the hard times I have been through in my life and thinking that my back is against the wall. I keep my aim to be present for my family with full energy and presence of mind. I think of training as something to help me channel all my energy into becoming a better version of who I was yesterday and more so to be in control of my own internal environment in order to survive in the external environment.

I truly believe that the way I show up in one area of life, I will do the same in every other area of life. So if my health is not in check them my family, career, finances, purpose, passion, and relationships will also go out of alignment. Training to me more like an anchor to get up and take control of life instead of others taking control of it.

To extend it further, it makes me a leader of my own life as I take charge from the get-go. I want to be prepared mentally, emotionally and physically before I step myself into the daily grind of working life where the battles of dealing with human emotions are constant.

Well, I hope this makes sense and helps some of you to start thinking about your life and health differently.

Rahul Talreja
BYBS Transformation

Meal Prep – Benefits Vs Excuses

One of the biggest factor of whether you are going to have a successful transformation, be it weight loss/ burn; building muscle or complete fitness etc., is your nutrition. Nutrition is something that makes or breaks the whole process of achieving our goals.

Meal Prep – Benefits Vs Excuses

Knowing what to eat is important but more than that when to eat plays an important role. I am a huge advocate of eating clean calories throughout the split in 5-6 meals every 2.5 to 3 hours. However, I just don’t talk about it, I live it. I have been doing this for last 3 years regardless of where I am – office, road trips, flights, hotels, and meetings, whatever it takes.

The key is to have a meal prep done in advance of your day so you don’t have to think about what to eat, you have it sorted already beforehand. Having my meals prepped in advance for the day saves me a lot of distraction so I can focus on important things in life like my work, my goals, my priorities across all areas of my life.

Secondly, eating small meals with the right proportion of protein, good carbs and good fats helps you maintain your blood sugar levels, there are no sudden drops or spikes which stops you from craving junk food. Additional benefits are better metabolism, more energy levels and less bloating to name a few.

Sure it takes some time to get used to the idea, dedication, and intention to succeed until it becomes a habit but it is worth every minute of it.

Okay while I am writing this, I am already hearing your questions or excuses that must be coming in your mind.

Let me lay it out your excuses for you –

I don’t have time every day to cook so many meals.

Well no one has extra time on hand and great thing is everyone living on this planet has 24 hours available, it’s up to us to prioritise. All you have to do is make the time. Best tip is prep meals on the weekend for next 3 days and then midweek for balance of the week. So you are not spending daily time in kitchen. Maybe let go of that 2 hours of TV time or maybe wake up an hour early each day to make things happen

I can’t eat that many meals in a day – I am a normal person who eats 3 regular meals a day.

No you are not eating JUST 3 “regular” meals a day. You are not counting your sneaky snacks that you are consuming in the form of cookies, chocolates, cakes, pies and what not. I am just helping you replace those unhealthy snacks to a small healthy meals. Guess what’s going to help you?

I have kids, once you have kids you will know what it takes

Great going, blame those little ones because that’s easy right? Kids are doing and being what they are best at – being kids. It’s not your kid’s fault that you are struggling to get results, so stop marking them as an excuse. Your health is your responsibility, so better take it like a champion. Best suggestion I can give you is include them in your journey, let them see you as a hard working person and get inspired by. It’s an opportunity to set a great example for them.

My family won’t support my transformation journey

Right! Here is another harsh truth to hit you between your eyes. NOBODY will stand with you if you don’t stand up for yourself – period! So take your own responsibility, even if it means having to do everything on your own. Your health is the biggest priority you have to look after before anything else. It’s best to have a heart to heart talk with them to align everyone or if still no support then tough luck – just do what you have to do.

I don’t know how to cook

If you have an understanding partner or a family member then all you have to do is work with them on grocery list, number of meals, quantity and timing. If you are a single fella then it’s time to learn some new skills my friend – get your hands dirty.

Summary

I can assure you there are more statements like these that one can come up with just to avoid putting the work towards leading a healthy lifestyle. The point I am wanting to make is if you want it bad enough you will find a way. And, if you think there is no way then you have never wanted badly enough.
When I work with my clients on Be Your Best Self Transformation programme, we work towards finding solutions instead of focussing on problems too much. The more we focus on problems the more they will become our reality. The sooner we switch our minds towards creating or finding solutions, the faster we move towards our goals.

If you have read it thus far, I must thank you for taking your time out for my blog. Lessons are meaningless if they aren’t shared. I hope you found some value in this blog.

Until next time
Cheers!

Rahul Talreja
Transformation Coach
Be Your Best Self Transformation

How to Eat Healthy on a Road Trip

The road trip is fun (I love them!) and who doesn’t enjoy them. The best time to be with your friends, plug into cool tunes (maybe sing along) and enjoy the cool breeze. One thing that doesn’t get enough attention is nutrition. Generally, the car is full of unhealthy snacking – chips, cookies, candy bars, jellies and then, of course, the popular stopping at a gas station or drive through for more food.

How to Eat Healthy on a Road Trip & Make Healthy Choices

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1) Start your day with healthy breakfast that gives your energy for long periods – eat whole foods instead of grabbing breakfast burger or pancakes from a fast food joint

2) Stop at grocery stores instead of fast food joints – fruits, bagged carrots, nuts, hummus, packed salads etc.

3) Eat small amounts during the day keeps you full burn calories quickly whereas when eating too many calories in one go makes you sluggish and sleepy.

4) Eat more protein – keeps you lean and strong and enhances concentration, stabilizes blood sugar levels.

5) Drink more water – helps you flush out toxins and reduces junk food cravings. Most people don’t realize but a lot of times they find themselves hungry is nothing but less water intake.

6) Pack healthy snacks for your trip so you don’t have to stop by to pick unhealthy stuff

7) Stretch your legs and do some jumping jacks or small run or high knee jumps to move the blood and the burn some calories. This also lifts your energy levels for the next few hours of the trip

Eating healthy on a road trip is not a hard thing to do, it’s only a matter of choice. Make smart choices and you will thank yourself.

Have fun!

Rahul